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November 13, 2022 By Anne R. Allen 24 Comments

Critiquing 101: Ten Do’s and Don’ts for Giving Helpful Critiques

Critiquing 101: Ten Do’s and Don’ts for Giving Helpful Critiques

Bad critiquing can pop somebody’s bubble without being helpful by Anne R. Allen I often advise new writers to look for a critique group to help them learn the writing ropes and get free feedback as well as the support they need when starting on a writing journey. But critique groups vary widely and some […]

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Filed Under: The Writing Life, Writers Dealing with Reviews and Rejection, Writing Craft Tagged With: Barb Drozdowich, critique group pitfalls, critique groups and criticism, Ghostwriters in the Sky, Nate Hoffelder

October 16, 2022 By Anne R. Allen 37 Comments

Tropes and Archetypes vs. Clichés: Why it’s Okay to Use Familiar Elements in Fiction

Tropes and Archetypes vs. Clichés: Why it’s Okay to Use Familiar Elements in Fiction

Tropes of “the Other Woman” are as old as Lilith by Anne R. Allen In a workshop recently, I was gobsmacked when one writer criticized another for using a story element that’s much loved in women’s fiction. It’s the one where the heroine discovers she’s the “other woman” in her man’s life, when she thought […]

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Filed Under: Writers Dealing with Reviews and Rejection, Writing Craft Tagged With: archetypes, Sherwood, Sherwood Ltd., tropes, writing cliches

August 28, 2022 By Anne R. Allen 32 Comments

The Upside of Impostor Syndrome and 7 Ways to Deal with the Downside

The Upside of Impostor Syndrome and 7 Ways to Deal with the Downside

by Ruth Harris What? There’s an upside to Impostor Syndrome? Yes. A sane, healthy mid-point exists between being stalled out by Impostor Syndrome and obnoxious, raging egomania so rancid even your dog hates you. Authentic modesty keeps you real — and productive. A certain degree of Impostor Syndrome can be the necessary spur that motivates […]

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July 17, 2022 By Anne R. Allen 35 Comments

Are You Writing Likeable Characters? Why That “Likeable” Label Depends on Genre

Are You Writing Likeable Characters? Why That “Likeable” Label Depends on Genre

by Anne R. Allen The British TV series Morse, based on the mystery novels by Colin Dexter, won the “Best British Mystery Series of All Time” title in a Radio Times poll. A recent Facebook post about the win made me think about the admonition authors hear that novels must have likeable characters. Inspector Morse […]

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Filed Under: The Publishing Business, Writers Dealing with Reviews and Rejection, Writing Craft Tagged With: Anne R. Allen, Ghostwriters in the Sky, Literary genres, Unsympathetic characters

February 27, 2022 By Anne R. Allen 34 Comments

Crave Rejection? 7 Never-Fail, 100% Guaranteed Tips for Raising your R-Score.

Crave Rejection? 7 Never-Fail, 100% Guaranteed Tips for Raising your R-Score.

by Ruth Harris Here are Some Pro Tips And Tricks To Absolutely, Positively Raise Your Anemic R-Score. Are you embarrassed by your pathetic R-quotient? Do other writers sneer at your R-score? Has your pile of rejection letters stalled out? Have your R-levels been diagnosed as too low? Has too much time gone by since your […]

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Filed Under: Writers Dealing with Reviews and Rejection, Writing Craft Tagged With: How to be Regected, Husband Training School, Ruth Harris

February 6, 2022 By Anne R. Allen 103 Comments

10 Dangerous Critiques: Beware Misguided Writing Advice

10 Dangerous Critiques: Beware Misguided Writing Advice

Dangerous Critiques can Turn Your WIP into a Jackalope by Anne R. Allen One of the most damaging things a new writer can do is try to please everybody who beta-reads or critiques  their WIP.  I’ve seen a novel turned into a kind of jackalope of unrelated parts. If you tend to be a “people […]

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November 7, 2021 By Anne R. Allen 56 Comments

Afraid to Call Yourself a Writer? You May Suffer from a Creativity Wound

Afraid to Call Yourself a Writer? You May Suffer from a Creativity Wound

by Anne R. Allen Early in my writing career, I wrote in secret — and hardly ever finished anything. If I got to the point where I could write “the end” on a piece, I’d bury it in a drawer. I was incapable of writing a whole novel. I always stopped after the first 40 […]

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Filed Under: The Writing Life, Writers Dealing with Reviews and Rejection Tagged With: Anne R. Allen, Creative wounds, critique group pitfalls, Ghostwriters in the Sky, NaNoREADMo

July 4, 2021 By Anne R. Allen 96 Comments

Writers, Do You Have Unsupportive Friends and Family? You’re Not Alone.

Writers, Do You Have Unsupportive Friends and Family? You’re Not Alone.

Unsupportive friends and family can make us feel separated from the world. by Anne R. Allen I’m always amazed at how many people I know — friends who would go out of their way to help me physically — cannot say one supportive thing about my writing. Some even ask for one of my books […]

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Filed Under: The Writing Life, Writers Dealing with Reviews and Rejection Tagged With: Anne R. Allen, Ghostwriters in the Sky, Unsupportive Family, Writing Groups

June 27, 2021 By Anne R. Allen 32 Comments

How to be an Everyday Star: Lessons From 4 Famous Authors

How to be an Everyday Star: Lessons From 4 Famous Authors

by Ruth Harris What can we learn from authors who have gone from obscurity to success? The Everyday Star Are you dreaming of being a *superstar* like Stephen King or Nora Roberts? Really? Think about it. How realistic is it to imagine that you, too, can be SK or NR? Do you have any idea […]

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Filed Under: The Writing Life, Writers Dealing with Reviews and Rejection Tagged With: Barbara Delinski, Everyday Star, Harlan Coben, John Le Carre, Lawrence Block, Ruth Harris, The Big Six-ho

March 21, 2021 By Anne R. Allen 22 Comments

Three Things Your Query Letter Needs to Stand Out

Three Things Your Query Letter Needs to Stand Out

Today we have a guest post on writing a query letter from literary agent Lucinda Halpern. I realize many of our readers are indie authors or plan to publish independently. But these rules are important for any kind of query: to a reviewer, editor or blogger as well. by Lucinda Halpern Writers put so much love and […]

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Filed Under: The Publishing Business, Writers Dealing with Reviews and Rejection Tagged With: how to query a literary agent, Lucinda Halpern, query letter

January 31, 2021 By Anne R. Allen 57 Comments

We’ve Got Mail—Nice, Nasty, and Just Plain Nutty. Writers Review Readers.

We’ve Got Mail—Nice, Nasty, and Just Plain Nutty. Writers Review Readers.

by Ruth Harris My encounters with reader mail go back a long way. My first job as a very young editor at Bantam included slogging through the slush pile and answering reader mail. No internet or email those days. Everything was done the old fashioned way — by hand. I’ve written before about my adventures in […]

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Filed Under: The Writing Life, Writers Dealing with Reviews and Rejection Tagged With: Park Avenue Blondes, reader feedback, Ruth Harris

December 13, 2020 By Anne R. Allen 28 Comments

How Not to Take Critiques Personally

How Not to Take Critiques Personally

  by Christine Carron Getting your work critiqued can be transformative. Most of us have probably experienced deep gratitude when a fellow writer shares an insight that allows us to see a weakness that we were too close to see on our own. Something that, once we act on it, transports our story to a […]

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Filed Under: The Writing Life, Writers Dealing with Reviews and Rejection Tagged With: Christine Carron, critique groups and criticism, The Critique MD

June 21, 2020 By Anne R. Allen 59 Comments

You Got Your First Bad Review: Congratulations!

You Got Your First Bad Review: Congratulations!

by Anne R. Allen I’m not sure anything stings as much as that first bad review. You’re riding high in triumph. You finished the project that may have taken decades to complete. Then you survived the crushing editing/ querying/ rejections/ revising/ editing again process. But now you’re finally a published author. Yay! Whether the publisher […]

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