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June 9, 2024 By Anne R. Allen 29 Comments

Should You Show a WIP to Friends and Family?

Should You Show a WIP to Friends and Family?

  by Anne R. Allen What should a new writer do when friends or family members ask to look at your fledgling WIP (work in progress)? We’re usually eager to share our work, and want to hear if we’re on the right track. The problem is, over-exuberant praise can keep us from polishing a draft, […]

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November 13, 2022 By Anne R. Allen 24 Comments

Critiquing 101: Ten Do’s and Don’ts for Giving Helpful Critiques

Critiquing 101: Ten Do’s and Don’ts for Giving Helpful Critiques

Bad critiquing can pop somebody’s bubble without being helpful by Anne R. Allen I often advise new writers to look for a critique group to help them learn the writing ropes and get free feedback as well as the support they need when starting on a writing journey. But critique groups vary widely and some […]

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December 13, 2020 By Anne R. Allen 28 Comments

How Not to Take Critiques Personally

How Not to Take Critiques Personally

  by Christine Carron Getting your work critiqued can be transformative. Most of us have probably experienced deep gratitude when a fellow writer shares an insight that allows us to see a weakness that we were too close to see on our own. Something that, once we act on it, transports our story to a […]

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Filed Under: The Writing Life, Writers Dealing with Reviews and Rejection Tagged With: Christine Carron, critique groups and criticism, The Critique MD

September 1, 2019 By Anne R. Allen 68 Comments

10 Kinds of Critique Groups that Can Drive You Bonkers

10 Kinds of Critique Groups that Can Drive You Bonkers

by Anne R. Allen I recommend that new writers take advantage of critique groups in order to learn about the publishing business and the craft of writing. Writing courses are expensive and often not as helpful as a good critique group. But there are bad critique groups too. Really bad. I’ve seen authors stop writing […]

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October 21, 2018 By Anne R. Allen 36 Comments

Creativity Wounds: Can NaNoWriMo Help Overcome Them?

Creativity Wounds: Can NaNoWriMo Help Overcome Them?

Creativity wounds: the slings and arrows of outrageous criticism.  by Anne R. Allen.  A couple of weeks ago, Grant Faulkner, executive director of NaNoWriMo, wrote a short piece for Jane Friedman’s blog about what he calls “creativity wounds.” The post resonated with me. Oh, yeah, I know about creativity wounds! I have to admit that […]

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Filed Under: The Writing Life, Writers Dealing with Reviews and Rejection Tagged With: creativity wounds, critique groups and criticism, Ghostwriters in the Sky, Grant Faulkner, Michael Ventura, NaNoWriMo, rejection

January 7, 2018 By Anne R. Allen 93 Comments

8 Qualities That Are More Important than Talent for Writing Success

8 Qualities That Are More Important than Talent for Writing Success

Even if you have the writing talent of Lord Byron, you need these things.  by Anne R. Allen I understand why new writers want to be reassured they have writing talent. They don’t want to embark on the long road to a writing career if they don’t have the chops. So I have sympathy with […]

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Filed Under: The Publishing Business, The Writing Life Tagged With: critique groups and criticism, Michael Ventura, Talent, The Myth of Talent, The Queen of Staves, writing rules

September 3, 2017 By Anne R. Allen 70 Comments

Don’t Fall Prey to Publishing Scams: 7 New Writer Mistakes to Avoid

Don’t Fall Prey to Publishing Scams: 7 New Writer Mistakes to Avoid

Predators are looking for newbies who make these mistakes. by Anne R. Allen We all make mistakes. It’s how people learn. But some new writer mistakes can end a writing career before it starts. They play into the hands of the predators who make money off the delusions of newbie writers. Ruth and I are […]

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Filed Under: The Publishing Business, The Writing Life, Writing Craft Tagged With: avoiding scams, Boomer Women, contemporary fiction writing, critique groups and criticism, practice novels, The Golden Quill Awards, vanity press, Writer's Boon

May 7, 2017 By Anne R. Allen 62 Comments

10 Writing Career Mistakes I Made So You Don’t Have To

10 Writing Career Mistakes I Made So You Don’t Have To

 Writing career mistakes will happen, but these are some you can avoid.  by Anne R. Allen Ruth and I like to say we made all the writing career mistakes so you don’t have to. I figure that I’ve collected nearly the full set of authorial faux pas since I embarked on a writing career. So today I’m […]

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February 12, 2017 By Anne R. Allen 41 Comments

All About Beta Readers: 7 Ways They Can Improve Your Book

All About Beta Readers: 7 Ways They Can Improve Your Book

Beta Readers aren’t editors or proofreaders, just thoughtful readers. by Anne R. Allen Most writers can benefit from the help of Beta Readers, whether we’re beginners or long-time professionals. So what’s a Beta Reader?  The term first came from fan fiction, and it means a person who reads your Work-In-Progress (“WIP”) when you, the writer […]

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Filed Under: The Writing Life, Writing Craft Tagged With: Best 100 Websites for Writers, beta readers, critique groups and criticism, how to be a beta reader, how to find beta readers, Jami Gold, No Place Like Home, The Write Life

December 4, 2016 By Anne R. Allen 64 Comments

The Writer’s Enemy List: Are These People Sabotaging Your Writing Dreams?

The Writer’s Enemy List: Are These People Sabotaging Your Writing Dreams?

Groucho Marxists are definitely on the writer’s enemy list by Anne R. Allen It can be tough to be a writer at holiday time. Uncle Bob wants to know why you aren’t rich yet. Aunt Susie calls you antisocial because you insist on doing those rewrites for your editor instead of helping with her booth […]

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November 20, 2016 By Anne R. Allen 126 Comments

Stupid Writing Rules: 12 Bad Writing Tips New Writers Give Each Other

Stupid Writing Rules: 12 Bad Writing Tips New Writers Give Each Other

Stupid writing rules–Beware the Dunning-Kruger Effect. by Anne R. Allen   Fake news isn’t our only problem in the era of social media. Fake writing rules are everywhere. Even I get taken in. I shared a meme on Facebook yesterday that gave a spelling rule that was 100% wrong. Thank goodness an English teacher friend […]

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September 4, 2016 By Anne R. Allen 47 Comments

Critique Groups: 6 Ways they May Hurt Your Writing…and 6 Ways they Can Help

Critique Groups: 6 Ways they May Hurt Your Writing…and 6 Ways they Can Help

Critique groups have their pros and cons. by Anne R. Allen I often advise new writers to join critique groups. Groups are usually free and they’re a great way to learn the basics of the writing craft. They can get writers out of their “writing garrets” and help newbies navigate the treacherous waters of the […]

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March 6, 2016 By Anne R. Allen 100 Comments

6 Reasons “Show Don’t Tell” Can be Terrible Advice for New Writers

6 Reasons “Show Don’t Tell” Can be Terrible Advice for New Writers

by Anne R. Allen   “Show-Don’t-Tell” is one of the most sacred commandments in the writerly bible. As Susan Defreitas wrote at LitReactor, “If writing advice were classic rock, this would be ‘Stairway to Heaven’.” “Show, Don’t Tell” is sound advice—up to a point. Nobody wants to read a novel that’s a dry recitation of incidents. […]

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