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June 30, 2024 By Anne R. Allen 17 Comments

Rejected? How to Keep it in Perspective

Rejected? How to Keep it in Perspective

  Rejected? Maybe it’s not you. Today we’re celebrating Ruth Harris’s 13th blogiversary. Ruth joined this blog in June of 2011, and I know it wouldn’t have succeeded without her expertise, humor, and warmth. To celebrate, we thought we’d re-run Ruth’s very first post. It’s packed with wisdom that still applies today. How to Keep […]

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Filed Under: Writers Dealing with Reviews and Rejection Tagged With: A Sampling of Sleuths, Husbands and Lovers, rejection, Ruth Harris, the writing life

October 21, 2018 By Anne R. Allen 36 Comments

Creativity Wounds: Can NaNoWriMo Help Overcome Them?

Creativity Wounds: Can NaNoWriMo Help Overcome Them?

Creativity wounds: the slings and arrows of outrageous criticism.  by Anne R. Allen.  A couple of weeks ago, Grant Faulkner, executive director of NaNoWriMo, wrote a short piece for Jane Friedman’s blog about what he calls “creativity wounds.” The post resonated with me. Oh, yeah, I know about creativity wounds! I have to admit that […]

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Filed Under: The Writing Life, Writers Dealing with Reviews and Rejection Tagged With: creativity wounds, critique groups and criticism, Ghostwriters in the Sky, Grant Faulkner, Michael Ventura, NaNoWriMo, rejection

April 30, 2017 By Anne R. Allen 65 Comments

Rejection and Failure: Why There’s a Difference, and Why Neither Means You Should Quit

Rejection and Failure: Why There’s a Difference, and Why Neither Means You Should Quit

Rejection and failure make you think of quitting? Be like Thomas Edison instead. by Ruth Harris Rejection can make us want to cry and/or break things but rejection is almost never personal and often has nothing to do with your book, either. The sting of rejection can be bullied into submission with a can-do, eff-you […]

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Filed Under: The Publishing Business, The Writing Life, Writers Dealing with Reviews and Rejection, Writing Craft Tagged With: failure, fear of failure, rejection, Ruth Harris, The Last Romantics

December 25, 2016 By Anne R. Allen 32 Comments

Writing Rules and Rejections: Ignore Them and Enjoy the Holidays!

Writing Rules and Rejections: Ignore Them and Enjoy the Holidays!

 Writing rules, rejection & why to forget them and have some holiday fun! Ruth Harris joined this blog five and a half years ago with a wildly popular blogpost on rejection. Because she worked as editor at a couple of Big Five Houses as well as being a New York Times bestselling author, she knows […]

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Filed Under: The Writing Life, Writers Dealing with Reviews and Rejection, Writing Craft Tagged With: Anne R. Allen, Decades, Ghostwriters in the Sky, rejection, Ruth Harris, writing rules

November 15, 2015 By Catherine Ryan Hyde 37 Comments

Catherine Ryan Hyde on Rejection: Does Your Rejected Work Need a Rewrite?

Catherine Ryan Hyde on Rejection: Does Your Rejected Work Need a Rewrite?

Rejections. We all get them. In fact, there are only two things we can absolutely count on in the writing business: rejections and bad reviews. There’s no doubt rejections make us feel terrible. As Brian Doyle wrote in Portland Magazine and was quoted in Letters of Note, “To receive one is to instantly and all at once […]

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Filed Under: Writers Dealing with Reviews and Rejection Tagged With: Agent rejection, Anne R. Allen, Catherine Ryan Hyde, coping with rejection, How to Be a Writer in the E-Age, Pay it Forward, rejection, What rejection means

September 8, 2013 By Anne R. Allen 43 Comments

Rejection 101: What Authors Should NEVER Do When They Get Rejections

Rejection 101: What Authors Should NEVER Do When They Get Rejections

I know. Rejections hurt. But they’re also a necessary part of your career as an author. So when you get your first one, give yourself time to feel the pain, then do something to celebrate. Maybe even print it out and frame it. Yup. You read that right. Congratulations! You now have the one thing […]

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Filed Under: The Writing Life, Writers Dealing with Reviews and Rejection, Writing Craft Tagged With: Agent rejection, Anne R. Allen, Catherine Ryan Hyde, How to deal with rejection, rejection, The Lady of the Lakewood Diner, Walk Me Home, What rejection means, When I Found You, Where We Belong

May 19, 2013 By Anne R. Allen 44 Comments

How NOT to Self-Publish: 12 Things for New Indies to Avoid

How NOT to Self-Publish: 12 Things for New Indies to Avoid

by Anne R. Allen   Self-publishing has lost its stigma, and it’s the publishing path of choice for a lot of writers these days. But that doesn’t mean it’s easy. Or that everybody who self-publishes will succeed. Unfortunately, I’m seeing a lot of writers dive in head first without having a clue what they’re doing. Even long-time […]

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Anne R. AllenAnne R. Allen writes funny mysteries and how-to-books for writers. She also writes poetry and short stories on occasion. She’s a contributor to Writer’s Digest and the Novel and Short Story Writer’s Market.

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