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June 27, 2021 By Anne R. Allen 32 Comments

How to be an Everyday Star: Lessons From 4 Famous Authors

How to be an Everyday Star: Lessons From 4 Famous Authors

by Ruth Harris What can we learn from authors who have gone from obscurity to success? The Everyday Star Are you dreaming of being a *superstar* like Stephen King or Nora Roberts? Really? Think about it. How realistic is it to imagine that you, too, can be SK or NR? Do you have any idea […]

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Filed Under: The Writing Life, Writers Dealing with Reviews and Rejection Tagged With: Barbara Delinski, Everyday Star, Harlan Coben, John Le Carre, Lawrence Block, Ruth Harris, The Big Six-ho

June 20, 2021 By Anne R. Allen 18 Comments

Introverted Authors in Public: 4 Tips For Overcoming Your Fear of Being Seen

Introverted Authors in Public: 4 Tips For Overcoming Your Fear of Being Seen

By Nate Hoffelder With COVID-19 slowly becoming less of a pandemic, it looks like it might be safe to start gathering again in large groups. This means that it is time for introverted authors to start brushing off their people skills and get ready to meet readers at book fairs and public events. After 18 […]

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Filed Under: Social Media and Marketing For Writers, The Writing Life Tagged With: introverred authors, Nate Hoffelder, public speaking for authors, The Digital Reader

June 6, 2021 By Anne R. Allen 63 Comments

Self-Publishing is a Business: Don’t Treat it Like a Childish Game

Self-Publishing is a Business: Don’t Treat it Like a Childish Game

Self-publishing isn’t about the author. It’s about pleasing the reader. by Anne R. Allen Easy self-publishing and the introduction of the e-reader brought seismic changes to the publishing world a decade ago. The “Kindle Revolution” propelled a bunch of smart authors from the slush pile to the top of Amazon’s bestseller lists. Suddenly writers had […]

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Filed Under: E-Books and Technology for Writers, Self-Publishing, The Publishing Business, The Writing Life Tagged With: Amazon reviews, Amazon scams, Anne R. Allen, negative review swarms, So Much for Buckingham

April 25, 2021 By Anne R. Allen 23 Comments

8 Stages in the Life Cycle of a Writer: From the Aha! Moment to Beyond the Grave.

8 Stages in the Life Cycle of a Writer: From the Aha! Moment to Beyond the Grave.

The life cycle of a writer can be as predictable as a frog’s by Ruth Harris A glimmer of an idea sparks in the writer’s mind. You’re in the shower, just waking up, cooking dinner, mopping the floor, or on the way to the supermarket, dentist, or a hot date with The One. It’s the […]

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Filed Under: The Publishing Business, The Writing Life Tagged With: Ruth Harris, Zuri a love story

April 4, 2021 By Anne R. Allen 43 Comments

Writing Rules vs. Writing Fashion: Should Writers Follow Fashion Trends?

Writing Rules vs. Writing Fashion: Should Writers Follow Fashion Trends?

Writing fashion changes, like the fashion in Easter Bonnets by Anne R. Allen Fashion. It sounds frivolous, but it has serious effects on us all. Right now, women are getting beard-burn from kissing men who sport the fashionable romantic-hero three-day stubble. And mothers are stifling their disappointment when their golden-haired boys get the fashion-victim shaved-sides […]

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Filed Under: The Publishing Business, The Writing Life, Writing Craft Tagged With: Anne R. Allen, dialogue tags, Italics, The Best Revenge, writing rules

March 14, 2021 By Anne R. Allen 101 Comments

Reader Pet Peeves: How to Avoid Writing Stuff Readers Hate

Reader Pet Peeves: How to Avoid Writing Stuff Readers Hate

by Anne R. Allen This week I saw links to a couple of threads on social media about reader pet peeves. Then Buzzfeed weighed in, listing some of the biggest complaints from fiction readers. Some peeves are predictable but others are kind of surprising. I do some of this stuff myself, so I was grateful […]

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Filed Under: The Writing Life, Writing Craft Tagged With: Catherine Ryan Hyde, Free book, How to Be a Writer in the E-Age, reader pet peeves

February 28, 2021 By Anne R. Allen 47 Comments

Fast. Cheap. Easy. The Modest, Unassuming Notebook—Digital or Paper—is Your Superpower.

Fast. Cheap. Easy. The Modest, Unassuming Notebook—Digital or Paper—is Your Superpower.

by Ruth Harris Who has used this secret superpower to achieve success? Tom Brady, Quarterback. A recent article on the sports page about Tampa Bay Buccaneers’ Quarterback Tom Brady preparing himself and his team for the Superbowl grabbed my attention. According to the story, one of Brady’s habits throughout a season is to create a […]

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Filed Under: The Publishing Business, The Writing Life Tagged With: Husbands and Lovers, Notebooks, Ruth Harris

February 14, 2021 By Anne R. Allen 32 Comments

Why You Shouldn’t Live with a Fictional Romantic Hero … During a Pandemic

Why You Shouldn’t Live with a Fictional Romantic Hero … During a Pandemic

A romantic hero is great on Valentine’s Day, but will ever-aftering be happy? by Tara Sparling Introduction: We love our romantic heroes, both on the page and onscreen. But what would it be like to truly live with one in real life… during a pandemic? It’s Valentine’s Day. And for the first time in forever, […]

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Filed Under: The Writing Life, Writing Craft Tagged With: Romance novels, Tara Sparling, Valentine's Day

January 31, 2021 By Anne R. Allen 57 Comments

We’ve Got Mail—Nice, Nasty, and Just Plain Nutty. Writers Review Readers.

We’ve Got Mail—Nice, Nasty, and Just Plain Nutty. Writers Review Readers.

by Ruth Harris My encounters with reader mail go back a long way. My first job as a very young editor at Bantam included slogging through the slush pile and answering reader mail. No internet or email those days. Everything was done the old fashioned way — by hand. I’ve written before about my adventures in […]

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December 27, 2020 By Anne R. Allen 39 Comments

Farewell to 2020!

Farewell to 2020!

by Ruth Harris Between Covid and lockdown rules, cabin fever and cooking, sour dough and sour moods, 2020 is—finally!—dragging to an end. Anne dealt with non-Covid-related debilitating health issues. I had to navigate NYC’s soaring Covid infection rates. She had a meltdown involving a TV remote. I had one triggered by laundry. The good news is that with […]

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December 13, 2020 By Anne R. Allen 28 Comments

How Not to Take Critiques Personally

How Not to Take Critiques Personally

  by Christine Carron Getting your work critiqued can be transformative. Most of us have probably experienced deep gratitude when a fellow writer shares an insight that allows us to see a weakness that we were too close to see on our own. Something that, once we act on it, transports our story to a […]

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Filed Under: The Writing Life, Writers Dealing with Reviews and Rejection Tagged With: Christine Carron, critique groups and criticism, The Critique MD

December 6, 2020 By Anne R. Allen 37 Comments

Ways to Convey Thankfulness—Even in 2020

Ways to Convey Thankfulness—Even in 2020

by Kathy Steinemann ’Tis the season to be thankful. November and December bring with them many opportunities to express gratitude: Veterans Day, World Kindness Day, Thanksgiving, Hanukkah, Christmas, and more. Ziad K. Abdelnour said, “Learn to appreciate what you have, before time makes you appreciate what you had.” Let’s consider a few things we can […]

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Filed Under: The Writing Life, Writing Craft Tagged With: Gratitude, Kathy Steinemann, The Writer's Lexicon

November 22, 2020 By Anne R. Allen 133 Comments

The Story of My Metamorphosis—Plus a Big Thank-you to my Blog Partners and Guests

The Story of My Metamorphosis—Plus a Big Thank-you to my Blog Partners and Guests

My metamorphosis into a Kafkaesqe bug by Anne R. Allen Yes. I’m back! A lot of readers have asked why I’ve been missing from the blog for the past five months, so I promised I’d detail my tale of woe when I returned. It’s kind of a long story. One that might have been written […]

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Anne R. AllenAnne R. Allen writes funny mysteries and how-to-books for writers. She also writes poetry and short stories on occasion. She’s a contributor to Writer’s Digest and the Novel and Short Story Writer’s Market.

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