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June 30, 2024 By Anne R. Allen 17 Comments

Rejected? How to Keep it in Perspective

Rejected? How to Keep it in Perspective

  Rejected? Maybe it’s not you. Today we’re celebrating Ruth Harris’s 13th blogiversary. Ruth joined this blog in June of 2011, and I know it wouldn’t have succeeded without her expertise, humor, and warmth. To celebrate, we thought we’d re-run Ruth’s very first post. It’s packed with wisdom that still applies today. How to Keep […]

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Filed Under: Writers Dealing with Reviews and Rejection Tagged With: A Sampling of Sleuths, Husbands and Lovers, rejection, Ruth Harris, the writing life

March 26, 2023 By Anne R. Allen 30 Comments

THE BEST WRITING ADVICE EVER: RESCUE YOUR STALLED BOOK WITH ONE WORD

THE BEST WRITING ADVICE EVER:  RESCUE YOUR STALLED BOOK WITH ONE WORD

writing advice from the creators of South Park by Ruth Harris The book you started with so much energy and optimism? That idea you thought was so great? Well, now that you’ve written mumble-mumble number of words, you’re not so sure. You’re beating up on yourself. You’re out of ideas. Out of gas. You’ve wasted […]

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Filed Under: Writing Craft Tagged With: Diamonds Are For Now, Husbands and Lovers, Matt Stone, Ruth Harris, Trey Parker

September 25, 2022 By Anne R. Allen 20 Comments

7 Ways Houses, Homes (and the Rooms in Them) Can Rescue that Stalled First Draft

7 Ways Houses, Homes (and the Rooms in Them) Can Rescue that Stalled First Draft

Stalled first draft? Make plans for a new setting. by Ruth Harris Home is where the heart is. Or is it? Home sweet home. Or is it? You can’t go home again. Or can you? You can go from: Shirley Jackson’s spooky Hill House to the Best Little Whorehouse in Texas — The Rosemary’s Baby […]

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March 27, 2022 By Anne R. Allen 35 Comments

The Three “R”s for Writers: Reference, Research and Resources—the World Beyond Google

The Three “R”s for Writers: Reference, Research and Resources—the World Beyond Google

by Ruth Harris How often should you water a cactus? What is the name of the president who came before Abraham Lincoln? How do you blow up a bridge? What’s so special about the Sydney opera house? What does SPECTRE stand for? In the course of writing a novel, a writer — one who will […]

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February 28, 2021 By Anne R. Allen 47 Comments

Fast. Cheap. Easy. The Modest, Unassuming Notebook—Digital or Paper—is Your Superpower.

Fast. Cheap. Easy. The Modest, Unassuming Notebook—Digital or Paper—is Your Superpower.

by Ruth Harris Who has used this secret superpower to achieve success? Tom Brady, Quarterback. A recent article on the sports page about Tampa Bay Buccaneers’ Quarterback Tom Brady preparing himself and his team for the Superbowl grabbed my attention. According to the story, one of Brady’s habits throughout a season is to create a […]

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February 23, 2020 By Anne R. Allen 46 Comments

5 Common Mental Traps That Stand Between You and Writing Success

5 Common Mental Traps That Stand Between You and Writing Success

5 common mental traps: how to ID them, how to fight back by Ruth Harris Last week Anne wrote about scams and scammers — the enemies out there ready to pounce on unwary writers. This week I want to follow up with some words about the enemies within — the traps writers set for themselves. Traps […]

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Filed Under: Writers Dealing with Reviews and Rejection, Writing Craft Tagged With: Husbands and Lovers, Mental traps, Ruth Harris

November 24, 2019 By Anne R. Allen 39 Comments

How to Ride The Publishing Roller Coaster Without Falling Off: How to Stay Sane in a Crazy Business

How to Ride The Publishing Roller Coaster Without Falling Off: How to Stay Sane in a Crazy Business

The publishing roller coaster can drive you nuts if you let it. by Ruth Harris I don’t really have to tell you, do I? Success followed by failure. Ups followed by crashes. Sinatra sang it: Flying high in April. Shot down in May. Moodswings. One week you pop the Dom Perignon. The next, you’re knee […]

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Filed Under: The Publishing Business, The Writing Life, Writers Dealing with Reviews and Rejection Tagged With: Husbands and Lovers, publishing business, Ruth Harris

October 27, 2019 By Anne R. Allen 26 Comments

Authors! Refresh, Rehab, Repair, and Renovate: How to Rejuvenate Your Backlist

Authors! Refresh, Rehab, Repair, and Renovate: How to Rejuvenate Your Backlist

Your backlist: remodel without a visit to a plastic surgeon or Home Depot. by Ruth Harris No, I’m certainly not sending you to the plastic surgeon. Even though maybe, just possibly your bio/book page could use — shall we say? — a nip and tuck. (Nothing personal. Just sayin.) And I’m not recommending a visit […]

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Filed Under: Self-Publishing, Social Media and Marketing For Writers Tagged With: how to refresh your backlist, Husbands and Lovers, keywords, Ruth Harris

June 28, 2015 By Ruth Harris 34 Comments

11 Tips For The Care And Feeding Of Your Muse: A Writer’s Guide

11 Tips For The Care And Feeding Of Your Muse: A Writer’s Guide

by Ruth Harris   The muse (also referred to as intuition, instinct, the subconscious, a superpower, the Spidey sense) is generally a friendly and cooperative breed. By nature, the muse tends to be bright eyed, curious and energetic. However, ignored or poorly-treated the muse can be become depressed and mopey and will not function effectively. […]

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Filed Under: The Writing Life, Writing Craft Tagged With: creativity, Evernote, Husbands and Lovers, psychology for writers, Ruth Harris, Susan Kaye Quinn, Twyla Tharp, Writer Self-Care, Writers block, Writing tips

June 24, 2012 By Ruth Harris 37 Comments

11 REASONS WRITERS GET REJECTED—AND WHY ONLY 3 OF THEM MATTER

11 REASONS WRITERS GET REJECTED—AND WHY ONLY 3 OF THEM MATTER

by Ruth Harris I‘m a TradPubbed NYT bestselling author gone indie. I was also an editor for over 20 years (Macmillan, Bantam, Dell) and the Publisher of Kensington—so let me put rejection into a little perspective. Let’s be clear: Manuscripts get rejected; not writers. Trust me. (Most of the time) it’s not personal. Let me […]

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Filed Under: The Publishing Business, The Writing Life, Writers Dealing with Reviews and Rejection Tagged With: Anne R. Allen, How to Be a Writer in the E-Age, Husbands and Lovers, On the Island, Publisher rejections, Ruth Harris, Tracy Garvis Graves, Why You Get Rejected

July 31, 2011 By Anne R. Allen 29 Comments

Former Big Six Editor Ruth Harris Joins the Blog

Former Big Six Editor Ruth Harris Joins the Blog

I have another Awesome Announcement this week: I now have a blog partner! She’s NYT bestselling author and former editor at Bantam, Dell and Kensington, RUTH HARRIS. I’ve had a lot of fabulous guest bloggers here in the last year, but Ruth is the only one whose post made it into my top ten most popular […]

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Anne R. AllenAnne R. Allen writes funny mysteries and how-to-books for writers. She also writes poetry and short stories on occasion. She’s a contributor to Writer’s Digest and the Novel and Short Story Writer’s Market.

Her bestselling Camilla Randall Mystery Series features perennially down-on-her-luck former socialite Camilla Randall—who is a magnet for murder, mayhem and Mr. Wrong, but always solves the mystery in her quirky, but oh-so-polite way.

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