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June 30, 2024 By Anne R. Allen 17 Comments

Rejected? How to Keep it in Perspective

Rejected? How to Keep it in Perspective

  Rejected? Maybe it’s not you. Today we’re celebrating Ruth Harris’s 13th blogiversary. Ruth joined this blog in June of 2011, and I know it wouldn’t have succeeded without her expertise, humor, and warmth. To celebrate, we thought we’d re-run Ruth’s very first post. It’s packed with wisdom that still applies today. How to Keep […]

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Filed Under: Writers Dealing with Reviews and Rejection Tagged With: A Sampling of Sleuths, Husbands and Lovers, rejection, Ruth Harris, the writing life

June 9, 2024 By Anne R. Allen 29 Comments

Should You Show a WIP to Friends and Family?

Should You Show a WIP to Friends and Family?

  by Anne R. Allen What should a new writer do when friends or family members ask to look at your fledgling WIP (work in progress)? We’re usually eager to share our work, and want to hear if we’re on the right track. The problem is, over-exuberant praise can keep us from polishing a draft, […]

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Filed Under: The Writing Life, Writers Dealing with Reviews and Rejection Tagged With: Anne R. Allen, critique groups and criticism, dealing with unsupportive friends, Ghostwriters in the Sky, writing feedback

May 5, 2024 By Anne R. Allen 43 Comments

Nobody Expects the Trollbot Inquisition! Are Foreign Bots Censoring U.S. Authors?

Nobody Expects the Trollbot Inquisition! Are Foreign Bots Censoring U.S. Authors?

Exterminate, exterminate—the Trollbot Inquisition may be coming for you! by Anne R. Allen We hardly ever write personal stuff here on the blog. I avoid politics and religion in my fiction as well as social media, and I figure nobody needs to hear about my little emotional ups and downs. But a couple of weeks […]

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Filed Under: The Writing Life, Writers Dealing with Reviews and Rejection Tagged With: A Sampling of Sleuths, Anne R. Allen, Sherwood Ltd., Trollbots

March 24, 2024 By Anne R. Allen 37 Comments

Writing Dreams Do Come True: What Happens After you Get “That Call”

Writing Dreams Do Come True: What Happens After you Get “That Call”

  By Yvonne Osborne Note from Anne: Yvonne is a long-time reader of this blog. When her writing dreams came true and a traditional publisher was about to release her first book, I asked her to write about the process. THE OFFER I’m writing this guest post from behind two boxes of books just delivered […]

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Filed Under: The Publishing Business, The Writing Life, Writers Dealing with Reviews and Rejection Tagged With: first novels, Let Evening Come, Yvonne Osborne

December 10, 2023 By Anne R. Allen 26 Comments

Who Needs a Literary Agent Anyway? Do They Deserve That Percentage?

Who Needs a Literary Agent Anyway? Do They Deserve That Percentage?

Rudyard Kipling needed a literary agent by Mark Williams As last September ended, a report from the Association of American Literary Agents painted a bleak picture of the American literary agent — working long hours and struggling to pay the bills, worrying for their future. Among the members of the author community who had ever […]

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Filed Under: The Publishing Business, The Writing Life, Writers Dealing with Reviews and Rejection Tagged With: Anca's Story, landing an agent, Mark Williams, The New Publishing Standard

December 3, 2023 By Anne R. Allen 28 Comments

It’s Not Your Book that’s Getting Rejected; It’s Your Query Letter

It’s Not Your Book that’s Getting Rejected; It’s Your Query Letter

Is your query letter the problem? by Anne R. Allen I’ve often wondered why some wonderful writers never get a nibble from an agent, and others get a request for a full manuscript after a handful of queries. I had an insight into the issue this week when I heard from a friend of a […]

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Filed Under: The Publishing Business, Writers Dealing with Reviews and Rejection Tagged With: advice for writers, Anne R. Allen, common new writer mistakes, how to write a query letter, The Lady of the Lakewood Diner

November 26, 2023 By Anne R. Allen 45 Comments

Helpful Writing Advice from the Pros

Helpful Writing Advice from the Pros

Writing advice to keep the turkeys from getting you down. by Ruth Harris Helpful writing advice— “There are three rules for writing a novel. Unfortunately, no one knows what they are.” — Somerset Maugham “Writing has laws of perspective, of light and shade just as painting does, or music. If you are born knowing them, […]

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Filed Under: The Publishing Business, The Writing Life, Writers Dealing with Reviews and Rejection Tagged With: Ruth Harris, The Last Romantics, Writing advice quotes

November 19, 2023 By Anne R. Allen 47 Comments

Writers: Beware Over-Workshopping Your WIP

Writers: Beware Over-Workshopping Your WIP

  by Anne R. Allen What’s over-workshopping? It’s what happens when writers attend too many writing workshops or critique groups where they’re fed dogmatic, my-way-or-the-highway rules. Following rules too closely can slow down your story (and your career.) It can also eliminate what’s creative and original in your work. You can spend years schlepping that […]

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Filed Under: Writers Dealing with Reviews and Rejection, Writing Craft Tagged With: Anne R. Allen, Catherine Ryan Hyde, critique groups, How to Be a Writer in the E-Age, writing workshops

October 22, 2023 By Anne R. Allen 24 Comments

Can NaNoWriMo Cure Your Creativity Wound?

Can NaNoWriMo Cure Your Creativity Wound?

  by Anne R. Allen A “creativity wound” is the psychological injury we feel when someone we trust says harsh, negative things about our creative work. Executive director of National Novel Writing Month (NaNoWriMo) Grant Faulkner explains it like this: “We put our souls, the meaning of our lives, into the things we create, whether […]

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Filed Under: The Writing Life, Writers Dealing with Reviews and Rejection Tagged With: creativity, Ghostwriters in the Sky, Grant Faulkner, NaNoWriMo

June 4, 2023 By Anne R. Allen 91 Comments

Readers’ Pet Peeves: Should Writers Pay Attention to Them?

Readers’ Pet Peeves: Should Writers Pay Attention to Them?

by Anne R. Allen As a reader, I’ve recently developed some pet peeves that never used to bother me. Maybe it’s age. These days I find it almost impossible to follow a novel with wild head-hopping, where every spear-carrier is a POV character. I’m also bored by stories where everybody is horrible and there’s nobody […]

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Filed Under: The Publishing Business, Writers Dealing with Reviews and Rejection, Writing Craft Tagged With: Academic Body, Anne R. Allen, Dr. Shirley S. Allen, Succession

May 28, 2023 By Anne R. Allen 39 Comments

Writer Wannabes and Other Literary Cooties. How One Author Fought Back — And Won.

Writer Wannabes and Other Literary Cooties.  How One Author Fought Back — And Won.

by Ruth Harris We all know them. Each of us has encountered them. They are the pilot fish and blood suckers with literary stars in their eyes who wannabe — drumroll — A Writer! Wannabe writers come to you with gauzy fantasies about “inspiration” and visions of overnight fame and instant riches. And they have […]

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Filed Under: The Publishing Business, The Writing Life, Writers Dealing with Reviews and Rejection Tagged With: dealing with unsupportive friends, From East Hampton With Love, Ruth Harris, Unsupportive Family

January 29, 2023 By Anne R. Allen 26 Comments

Are Writer No-No’s Ruining Your Book? What to do Instead

Are Writer No-No’s Ruining Your Book? What to do Instead

by Ruth Harris Meh. With a Shrug. The book’s not terrible. Not at all. The settings are well-drawn, the dialogue’s more than halfway decent, the reader can even tell one character from another — but, bottom line, it’s meh. With a shrug. Something’s missing. What’s the x factor? What’s the mysterious something that turns meh into mahvelous? OMG. Are […]

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Filed Under: The Writing Life, Writers Dealing with Reviews and Rejection, Writing Craft Tagged With: constructive criticism vs. bias, Over-workshopping, Ruth Harris, Zuri

December 4, 2022 By Anne R. Allen 65 Comments

Why Realism is Irrelevant in Fiction: Aim for Believability Instead

Why Realism is Irrelevant in Fiction: Aim for Believability Instead

by Anne R. Allen “I don’t do realism. Sometimes people will mention that something I’ve written doesn’t seem realistic and I always picture them looking at a Chagall and thinking the same thing. You can say, “I don’t like what you do, or I don’t like Chagall, or I don’t like Picasso” but saying that […]

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Filed Under: The Writing Life, Writers Dealing with Reviews and Rejection, Writing Craft Tagged With: Catherine Ryan Hyde, How to Be a Writer in the E-Age, James Patterson, Realism is overrated

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Anne R. AllenAnne R. Allen writes funny mysteries and how-to-books for writers. She also writes poetry and short stories on occasion. She’s a contributor to Writer’s Digest and the Novel and Short Story Writer’s Market.

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