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October 5, 2014 By Anne R. Allen 142 Comments

Do Authors Obsess Too Much About Book Reviews?

Do Authors Obsess Too Much About Book Reviews?

by Anne R. Allen Let’s Face it: Getting Reviews is Tough Whether we’re newbies or superstars, traditional or self-publishers, pretty much all authors stress about reviews: getting them…and surviving them. From the time our first book launches, we’re told our number one job is to get reviewed. We send out ARCs, desperately query book bloggers […]

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Filed Under: The Publishing Business, The Writing Life, Writers Dealing with Reviews and Rejection Tagged With: Amazon reviews, Amazon rules, bad reviews, Barbara Morgenroth, Book Marketing, Book review blogs, Book Reviews, Joel Friedlander, Mark Coker, Molly Greene, online reviews, Reviews and Rejection, tell-a-friend

August 10, 2014 By Anne R. Allen 43 Comments

What is a Beta Reader? Everything You Always Wanted to Know About Getting and Giving Feedback on your WIP

What is a Beta Reader? Everything You Always Wanted to Know About Getting and Giving Feedback on your WIP

This week we’re proud to host author and editor Jami Gold, fresh from her role as a presenter at the RWA conference in San Antonio. If you missed the conference, Jami’s posts on the highlights of the annual Romance Writers Association event are fascinating. You’ll find them on her blog at JamiGold, Paranormal Author. Jami’s blog is […]

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Filed Under: The Writing Life, Writers Dealing with Reviews and Rejection, Writing Craft Tagged With: beta readers, Chanel and Gatsby, critique groups and criticism, how to find beta readers, how to get feedback on your WIP, Jami Gold, Writing Resources

August 3, 2014 By Anne R. Allen 92 Comments

Why You Should Ignore Most Advice from your Critique Group…but They Can Help You Anyway

Why You Should Ignore Most Advice from your Critique Group…but They Can Help You Anyway

by Anne R. Allen   I generally advise new writers to join a critique group or participate in writing workshops. Getting feedback on your own writing and discovering what works—and what doesn’t—in other writers’ WIPs provides an education you can’t get from simply reading craft books, blogs, or listening to lectures. And I’m not the […]

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Filed Under: The Writing Life, Writers Dealing with Reviews and Rejection, Writing Craft Tagged With: beta readers, Catherine Ryan Hyde, criticism, critique groups, Freelance book editors, How to Be a Writer in the E-Age, Jami Gold, when to hire an editor, Writing Workshop

July 27, 2014 By Ruth Harris 44 Comments

EDITS, EDITORS, EDITING—The Secret Weapon of Every Successful Writer

by Ruth Harris   Editing is life. The blue tie? Or the yellow one? Peter or Paul? Or Mary? You’re an editor—whether or not you know it yet—because to edit is to choose. As a former editor, I’m obviously biased. As a writer, I’ve learned that for me (and for just about every writer I […]

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Filed Under: The Publishing Business, Writers Dealing with Reviews and Rejection, Writing Craft Tagged With: Belinda Pollard, book editing, Joanna Penn, Ruth Harris, Self-Editing, Style Sheet, The Chanel Caper, Types of Editing, Victoria Mixon

November 17, 2013 By Anne R. Allen 54 Comments

Are Your Family and Friends Sabotaging your Writing Dreams?

Are Your Family and Friends Sabotaging your Writing Dreams?

by Anne R. Allen Writers participating in NaNoWriMo (National Novel Writing Month) may discover that friends and family aren’t entirely enthused by your decision to disappear into your computer for a month. (I have a secret suspicion that Chris Baty invented NaNo in order to escape those painful family Thanksgiving dinners.) But at any time of […]

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Filed Under: The Writing Life, Writers Dealing with Reviews and Rejection, Writing Craft Tagged With: beta readers, Crazy-Makers, critique groups, Dream-smashers, GalleyCat, Holli Moncrieff, Julia Cameron, Kristen Lamb, NaNoWriMo, SLO Nightwriters

October 6, 2013 By Anne R. Allen 110 Comments

The Laws of the (Amazon) Jungle—Eight Rules Authors Need to Know to Stay Safe

The Laws of the (Amazon) Jungle—Eight Rules Authors Need to Know to Stay Safe

by Anne R. Allen   Everybody tells authors we must use social media to have successful careers in the E-age, but nobody talks much about the dangers that lurk here. Here’s the thing: the Internet is still the wild frontier. And it’s so huge nobody’s quite sure how to police it.  Big, loosely regulated social […]

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Filed Under: Scams and Alerts for Writers, Self-Publishing, Social Media and Marketing For Writers, The Publishing Business, Writers Dealing with Reviews and Rejection Tagged With: Amazon Review Guidelines, Amazon rules, Awesome Screenshot, Bob Mayer, Cyberbullying, Facebook, Goodreads, Google+, How not to spam, How to stay safe online, Kirkus, nasty book reviews, Stephen Marche

September 29, 2013 By Ruth Harris 38 Comments

The Writer’s Toolkit #2: More Must-Have Tools for Writers

The Writer’s Toolkit #2: More Must-Have Tools for Writers

  This week Ruth Harris gives us more must-have tools for writers in the second installment of her “Writer’s Toolkit” Series. Lots of stuff here that’s available FREE or cheaply. This is another post—like the one about global markets last week—that reminds me how much I still don’t know about this business. I have to […]

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Filed Under: E-Books and Technology for Writers, The Publishing Business, The Writing Life, Writers Dealing with Reviews and Rejection Tagged With: Free Elements of Style, How to prepare a manuscript, Kindlegen, Ruth Harris, Style Guide, Style Sheet, Weebly, WIX, Writers Toolbox

September 15, 2013 By Anne R. Allen 98 Comments

Blog Communities: Forming a Safe Place for New Writers in a Scary Online World

Blog Communities: Forming a Safe Place for New Writers in a Scary Online World

  Some pretty scary things have been happening in the online book world recently—stuff that’s been shocking to those of us who expect our fellow book-lovers to behave like civilized adults. I spend a lot of time telling new authors how to use social media to create a “platform,” but I probably don’t warn you enough about the […]

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Filed Under: Blogging for Authors, Social Media and Marketing For Writers, The Writing Life, Writers Dealing with Reviews and Rejection Tagged With: Alex J. Cavanaugh, Anne R. Allen, Blog community, Blogging, blogs, Donelle Lacy, How to stay safe online, Indiestructible, Insecure Writers Support Group, Julie Luek

September 8, 2013 By Anne R. Allen 43 Comments

Rejection 101: What Authors Should NEVER Do When They Get Rejections

Rejection 101: What Authors Should NEVER Do When They Get Rejections

I know. Rejections hurt. But they’re also a necessary part of your career as an author. So when you get your first one, give yourself time to feel the pain, then do something to celebrate. Maybe even print it out and frame it. Yup. You read that right. Congratulations! You now have the one thing […]

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Filed Under: The Writing Life, Writers Dealing with Reviews and Rejection, Writing Craft Tagged With: Agent rejection, Anne R. Allen, Catherine Ryan Hyde, How to deal with rejection, rejection, The Lady of the Lakewood Diner, Walk Me Home, What rejection means, When I Found You, Where We Belong

June 30, 2013 By Ruth Harris 29 Comments

Rejection, Rotten Reviews, and Social Media: 7 Ways Writers Need to be Like Rhinos

Rejection, Rotten Reviews, and Social Media: 7 Ways Writers Need to be Like Rhinos

by Ruth Harris   Writers are always urged to have or develop  “rhino skin.” But let me add a few words about rhino skin. When I wrote ZURI, I did lots & lots of research about rhinos. As it turns out, rhinos have thick hides but sensitive skin—quite different from the usual perception. What rhinos […]

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Filed Under: Social Media and Marketing For Writers, The Writing Life, Writers Dealing with Reviews and Rejection, Writing Craft Tagged With: advice for writers, coping with rejection, how to be a successful author, how to deal with negative reviews, opportunities for writers, rhinos, Ruth Harris, Zuri a love story

March 10, 2013 By Anne R. Allen 36 Comments

The #1 Reason for #QueryFails—How to Avoid Automatic Rejection from a Reviewer, Agent, Editor or Blogger

by Anne R. Allen   Whether you’re a freelance journalist trying to place an article, a novelist looking for literary representation, or an indie author seeking reviews and/or guest post gigs, every writer needs to learn to write a smart, short, compelling query letter. (And no, it can’t be a Tweet or personal message on […]

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Filed Under: Blogging for Authors, The Publishing Business, Writers Dealing with Reviews and Rejection Tagged With: #QueryFail, Book Blogger, Foreword Literary, Gordon Wornock, How to Query, how to query a book reviewer, Laurie McLean, Michael Murphy, Pam van Hylckama Vlieg

January 6, 2013 By Anne R. Allen 60 Comments

Online Book Reviews: Games People Play

Online Book Reviews: Games People Play

by Anne R. Allen   Last year I wrote a post about the importance of writing Amazon reviews that caused something of a poop-storm in the bookish corners of Cyberia. Although most readers—especially in my own Boomer demographic—were grateful for the post, a furious minority exploded in fits of high dudgeon. I even got death threats […]

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Filed Under: E-Books and Technology for Writers, Writers Dealing with Reviews and Rejection Tagged With: Amazon review removal, Book review blogs, Boomer Lit, Dorothy Parker, Gary Trudeau, Jeremy Duns, Jess Walter, Joanna Harris, John Updike, Mark Billingham, Mark Coker, New York Review of Books, The New Yorker

July 8, 2012 By Anne R. Allen 43 Comments

Bad Reviews—Six Reasons to Be Glad You Have Them

Bad Reviews—Six Reasons to Be Glad You Have Them

by Anne R. Allen   “What? Glad?” sez you. “There is nothing that makes a writer sadder than a bad review!” That’s true. They can feel like a sudden, nasty downpour on the biggest parade of your life. Whether you self-pubbed or worked with a traditional publisher, the publication of your first book is a […]

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Anne R. AllenAnne R. Allen writes funny mysteries and how-to-books for writers. She also writes poetry and short stories on occasion. She’s a contributor to Writer’s Digest and the Novel and Short Story Writer’s Market.

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