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April 19, 2020 By Anne R. Allen 30 Comments

What Successful Writers and Experienced Detectives Have in Common

What Successful Writers and Experienced Detectives Have in Common

by Garry Rodgers I was always the weird kid. While other boys dreamed of growing up to fly fast fighters or fight ferocious fires, I wanted to be a writer. It was like a calling. Is that weird or what? But, instead of studying fine arts or going to journalism school, when I turned twenty-one […]

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Filed Under: The Writing Life Tagged With: From the Shadows, Garry Rogers, how to be a successful author, police detective

April 12, 2020 By Anne R. Allen 48 Comments

Don’t Become a Social Media Ghost: Appoint a Social Media Executor.

Don’t Become a Social Media Ghost: Appoint a Social Media Executor.

A social media executor will keep you from becoming a social media ghost.  by Anne R. Allen We’re living through a time when we’re forced to face something our culture prefers to ignore: our own mortality. We’re discovering, to paraphrase Emily Dickinson, that although we do not stop for death, it kindly stops for us. […]

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Filed Under: Blogging for Authors, Social Media and Marketing For Writers, The Writing Life Tagged With: Dead Social, password passbook, Social Media, social media etiquette, social media ghost

April 5, 2020 By Anne R. Allen 75 Comments

Why it’s so Tough to Write Now: Tips for Dealing with Our Collective Grief

Why it’s so Tough to Write Now: Tips for Dealing with Our Collective Grief

Collective grief is loud and unrelenting. But there are ways to tune it out.  by Anne R. Allen There are a lot of jokes out there right now like the cartoon in The New Yorker showing a young woman saying something like “I couldn’t decide whether to work on my novel or my screenplay, so […]

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Filed Under: The Writing Life Tagged With: Edna St. Vincent Millay, Frances Caballo, Ghostwriters in the Sky, Gila Sack, Rachel Thompson, Sherwood Ltd., Tony Piazza, Writers block

March 8, 2020 By Anne R. Allen 71 Comments

The Biggest Mistake New Novelists and Memoirists Make

The Biggest Mistake New Novelists and Memoirists Make

by Anne R. Allen A lot of the problems new novelists and memoirists encounter stem from one thing. I see their plaintive posts and emails all the time. “I self-published my novel last year and promoted it free with a Bookbub ad, but after the freebie run, I’ve only sold a handful of books.” “I’ve […]

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Filed Under: Self-Publishing, Social Media and Marketing For Writers, The Publishing Business, The Writing Life Tagged With: first novels, how to write memoir, practice novels, The Author Blog: Easy Blogging for Busy Authors

March 1, 2020 By Anne R. Allen 97 Comments

Clueless Advice People Give New Writers: 10 Things to Ignore

Clueless Advice People Give New Writers: 10 Things to Ignore

Clueless advice abounds. Everybody’s an expert. by Anne R. Allen I’m always amazed at the people who start giving me advice as soon as they hear I’m a writer. Even though I’ve been published for over 30 years, they’re always sure they know more than I do. And it’s worse for new writers. They’re bombarded […]

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Filed Under: The Writing Life, Writers Dealing with Reviews and Rejection Tagged With: advice for new writers, advice for writers, Googling Old Boyfriends

February 2, 2020 By Anne R. Allen 64 Comments

Is That Me in Your Novel? When Life Imitates Fiction, and Vice-Versa

Is That Me in Your Novel? When Life Imitates Fiction, and Vice-Versa

by Anne R. Allen Recently I got a furious Facebook message from a stranger who accused me of “using her life” in one of my books.  It’s amazing how sometimes life imitates fiction. She had apparently been a Facebook friend, and she dramatically unfriended me after sending a distraught DM describing the traumas in her […]

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Filed Under: The Publishing Business, The Writing Life Tagged With: how to fictionalize a memoir, The Queen of Staves, turning real life into fiction

December 15, 2019 By Anne R. Allen 23 Comments

Why You Shouldn’t Live With An Underwritten Christmas Character

Why You Shouldn’t Live With An Underwritten Christmas Character

by Tara Sparling Introduction: Ever wonder what it would be like to live with a well-known fictional character stereotype? At Christmas? Well, wonder no more, and count your blessings that you don’t… It’s December the Somethingth. You come home from a long day at work. You were supposed to buy Christmas gifts, but the traffic […]

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Filed Under: The Writing Life, Writing Craft Tagged With: Christmas books, Tara Sparling, Underwritten characters

December 8, 2019 By Anne R. Allen 45 Comments

3 Things You Need To Become an Author (Plus a 4th to Keep in the Game.)

3 Things You Need To Become an Author (Plus a 4th to Keep in the Game.)

By Melodie Campbell. I’m not talking about a room of your own, with all due respect to Virginia Wolf.  (Although that is certainly handy.  Writing your early stories on the floor of the bathroom with your kids outside shaking the locked door gets tiresome pretty fast.) But today I’m talking about what I tell the […]

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Filed Under: The Publishing Business, The Writing Life Tagged With: Melodie Campbell, The Goddaughter Does Vegas, The Goddaughter Series

November 24, 2019 By Anne R. Allen 39 Comments

How to Ride The Publishing Roller Coaster Without Falling Off: How to Stay Sane in a Crazy Business

How to Ride The Publishing Roller Coaster Without Falling Off: How to Stay Sane in a Crazy Business

The publishing roller coaster can drive you nuts if you let it. by Ruth Harris I don’t really have to tell you, do I? Success followed by failure. Ups followed by crashes. Sinatra sang it: Flying high in April. Shot down in May. Moodswings. One week you pop the Dom Perignon. The next, you’re knee […]

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Filed Under: The Publishing Business, The Writing Life, Writers Dealing with Reviews and Rejection Tagged With: Husbands and Lovers, publishing business, Ruth Harris

October 20, 2019 By Anne R. Allen 48 Comments

What Keeps You From Writing Success? Are you a Prisoner of Unexamined Beliefs?

What Keeps You From Writing Success? Are you a Prisoner of Unexamined Beliefs?

Unexamined beliefs can keep a writer in a prison of your own making. by Anne R. Allen “Think outside the box” has become a mindless cliché these days. It’s repeated so often that the meaning has pretty much disappeared. But it’s still excellent advice—if you know how to follow it. Unfortunately, most people are unaware […]

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Filed Under: The Writing Life, Writers Dealing with Reviews and Rejection Tagged With: How to Be a Writer in the E-Age, NaNoWriMo, The "was" police, the Dunning-Kruger Effect, unexamined beliefs

September 29, 2019 By Anne R. Allen 29 Comments

The Seductive Power of a New Book Idea: When to Give in to the Romance

The Seductive Power of a New Book Idea: When to Give in to the Romance

Romancing your new book idea: when to give in—and when to give up. by Ruth Harris Falling in love is easy. We’re swept away, starry-eyed, giddy with possibility. This time it’s different. Really! But is it? The Old Book Blues. You’ve done it. Again! You’ve written yourself into a blind alley. You’re stuck, blocked, out […]

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September 22, 2019 By Anne R. Allen 110 Comments

How Well-Intentioned Loved Ones Can Sabotage Your Writing Career

How Well-Intentioned Loved Ones Can Sabotage Your Writing Career

Launching a writing career is hard–especially with family sabotage. by Anne R. Allen Learning to write well is tough. Getting published is tougher. And selling your published books is tougher still. Nevertheless, we persist. Most writers feel compelled to write, and usually nothing can stop us. But we can be waylaid, distracted, and seriously discouraged. […]

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Filed Under: The Writing Life Tagged With: Julia Cameron, negativity, Poisonous Playmates, The Insecure Writer's Support Group

September 15, 2019 By Anne R. Allen 24 Comments

The Five Myths of Crisis Management for Authors

The Five Myths of Crisis Management for Authors

Crisis management during an online attack needs a quick, savvy response. by Chris Syme I know what you’re thinking. You see the word crisis and say, that will never happen to me. Sorry to burst your bubble, but you are wrong. As with all public figures, a reputation-tanking, book-disappearing, fan-stalking, Twitter-storm crisis can happen to […]

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Filed Under: Social Media and Marketing For Writers, The Publishing Business, The Writing Life, Writers Dealing with Reviews and Rejection Tagged With: Chris Syme, Crisis Management, Crisis Management for Authors, reputation management

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Anne R. AllenAnne R. Allen writes funny mysteries and how-to-books for writers. She also writes poetry and short stories on occasion. She’s a contributor to Writer’s Digest and the Novel and Short Story Writer’s Market.

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