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June 27, 2026 By Anne R. Allen 27 Comments

5 Pieces of Terrible Advice Writers Get on Social Media

5 Pieces of Terrible Advice Writers Get on Social Media

  by Anne R. Allen It’s great for writers to make friends on social media. That’s why we’re there. Networking with other writers is essential to a writing career these days. But it’s good to be aware that, like people on the rest of the internet, writers on social media can be the source of […]

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Filed Under: E-Books and Technology for Writers, Social Media and Marketing For Writers, The Publishing Business, Writing Craft Tagged With: Anne R. Allen, social media for authors, The Hour of the Moth

October 18, 2025 By Anne R. Allen 26 Comments

Writing “Rules” are Only Guidelines

Writing “Rules” are Only Guidelines

  by Anne R. Allen Last month, I wrote a post with tips about how (not) to write a novel opener. Some readers complained that I was “dictating” how people should write. That wasn’t my intention. I only talked about what agents and editors think has been overdone, and what doesn’t work well in an […]

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Filed Under: The Publishing Business, The Writing Life, Writing Craft Tagged With: Anne R. Allen, Catfishing in America, Where the Crawdads Sing, writing rules, writing tropes

March 3, 2024 By Anne R. Allen 54 Comments

Fake Law Enforcement Scams are Targeting Writers: The Diabolical “Cash in a Shoebox” Scam

Fake Law Enforcement Scams are Targeting Writers: The Diabolical “Cash in a Shoebox” Scam

  By Anne R. Allen Recently an article in The Cut by finance writer Charlotte Cowles shocked her readers with the story of how she was robbed by a gang of con artists. She admitted she ended up giving these crooks $50,000 in cash in a shoe box. Like many other readers, I wondered how […]

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Filed Under: Scams and Alerts for Writers Tagged With: Anne R. Allen, avoiding scams, Charlotte Cowles, Ghostwriters in the Sky, Leverage, vanity publishers

February 4, 2024 By Anne R. Allen 54 Comments

“A Little Less Conversation; A Little More Action, Please” — Don’t Overdo Dialogue in Fiction

“A Little Less Conversation; A Little More Action, Please” — Don’t Overdo Dialogue in Fiction

Dialogue is fun in fiction, but too much can be exhausting by Anne R. Allen Yes, I’m quoting an Elvis song (actually by his songwriters Mac Davis and Billy Strange) in a writing article. But the title is a good thing to keep in mind when you’re writing fiction. I recently paid money for a […]

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Filed Under: Writing Craft Tagged With: Anne R. Allen, Fiction University, Googling Old Boyfriends, writing dialogue

November 26, 2023 By Anne R. Allen 45 Comments

Helpful Writing Advice from the Pros

Helpful Writing Advice from the Pros

Writing advice to keep the turkeys from getting you down. by Ruth Harris Helpful writing advice— “There are three rules for writing a novel. Unfortunately, no one knows what they are.” — Somerset Maugham “Writing has laws of perspective, of light and shade just as painting does, or music. If you are born knowing them, […]

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Filed Under: The Publishing Business, The Writing Life, Writers Dealing with Reviews and Rejection Tagged With: Ruth Harris, The Last Romantics, Writing advice quotes

November 19, 2023 By Anne R. Allen 47 Comments

Writers: Beware Over-Workshopping Your WIP

Writers: Beware Over-Workshopping Your WIP

  by Anne R. Allen What’s over-workshopping? It’s what happens when writers attend too many writing workshops or critique groups where they’re fed dogmatic, my-way-or-the-highway rules. Following rules too closely can slow down your story (and your career.) It can also eliminate what’s creative and original in your work. You can spend years schlepping that […]

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Filed Under: Writers Dealing with Reviews and Rejection, Writing Craft Tagged With: Anne R. Allen, Catherine Ryan Hyde, critique groups, How to Be a Writer in the E-Age, writing workshops

September 3, 2023 By Anne R. Allen 58 Comments

Terrible Advice Writers Should Ignore from Social Media Friends

Terrible Advice Writers Should Ignore from Social Media Friends

  by Anne R. Allen I see terrible advice in online writing groups and blog comments all the time. Sometimes I step in and gently disagree. But mostly I don’t. Arguing with people on social media is an exercise in futility. So I get to express my opinions here. It’s great to make friends on […]

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Filed Under: Self-Publishing, Social Media and Marketing For Writers, The Publishing Business, Writing Craft Tagged With: Anne R. Allen, Bad advice for new writers, Food of Love, Tips for new writers

July 9, 2023 By Anne R. Allen 24 Comments

9 Common Dialogue Problems—And How to Fix Them

9 Common Dialogue Problems—And How to Fix Them

  by Anne R. Allen Learning to write effective, believable dialogue is one of the toughest parts of learning to write narrative — whether fiction or memoir. We don’t want to simply transcribe the way people actually talk, with all the pointless “ums” and stammery filler-things we say in real life. But we also don’t […]

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Filed Under: Writing Craft Tagged With: dialogue tags, how to write dialogue, The Camilla Randall Mysteries boxed set

March 26, 2023 By Anne R. Allen 30 Comments

THE BEST WRITING ADVICE EVER: RESCUE YOUR STALLED BOOK WITH ONE WORD

THE BEST WRITING ADVICE EVER:  RESCUE YOUR STALLED BOOK WITH ONE WORD

writing advice from the creators of South Park by Ruth Harris The book you started with so much energy and optimism? That idea you thought was so great? Well, now that you’ve written mumble-mumble number of words, you’re not so sure. You’re beating up on yourself. You’re out of ideas. Out of gas. You’ve wasted […]

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Filed Under: Writing Craft Tagged With: Diamonds Are For Now, Husbands and Lovers, Matt Stone, Ruth Harris, Trey Parker

January 8, 2023 By Anne R. Allen 65 Comments

Writers: Why Blogging is Essential in the Era of Fragmenting Social Media.

Fragmenting Social Media Creates a Problem for Book Marketing By Anne R. Allen I know how it is: your readers started fading from Facebook all through 2022, disgusted by invasive advertising and slimy tactics that spy on your every move. They are also fed up by those bizarre, arbitrary algorithms that send you to Facebook […]

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Filed Under: Blogging for Authors, Social Media and Marketing For Writers Tagged With: Anne R. Allen, Book Marketing, social media for authors, The Author Blog: Easy Blogging for Busy Authors

December 19, 2021 By Anne R. Allen 47 Comments

Let Your Crawdads Sing! Writers, Remember “Writing Rules” are only Guidelines

Let Your Crawdads Sing! Writers, Remember “Writing Rules” are only Guidelines

By Anne R. Allen Ruth and I write this blog to give back to the writing community we’ve lived and worked in for many decades. We offer warnings about scams, plus tips and helpful suggestions for writing fiction and creative nonfiction that contemporary readers will want to buy. We say “we made the mistakes so […]

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Filed Under: The Writing Life, Writing Craft Tagged With: Anne R. Allen, The Camilla Randall Mysteries boxed set

November 7, 2021 By Anne R. Allen 56 Comments

Afraid to Call Yourself a Writer? You May Suffer from a Creativity Wound

Afraid to Call Yourself a Writer? You May Suffer from a Creativity Wound

by Anne R. Allen Early in my writing career, I wrote in secret — and hardly ever finished anything. If I got to the point where I could write “the end” on a piece, I’d bury it in a drawer. I was incapable of writing a whole novel. I always stopped after the first 40 […]

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Filed Under: The Writing Life, Writers Dealing with Reviews and Rejection Tagged With: Anne R. Allen, Creative wounds, critique group pitfalls, Ghostwriters in the Sky, NaNoREADMo

March 14, 2021 By Anne R. Allen 109 Comments

Reader Pet Peeves: How to Avoid Writing Stuff Readers Hate

Reader Pet Peeves: How to Avoid Writing Stuff Readers Hate

by Anne R. Allen This week I saw links to a couple of threads on social media about reader pet peeves. Then Buzzfeed weighed in, listing some of the biggest complaints from fiction readers. Some peeves are predictable but others are kind of surprising. I do some of this stuff myself, so I was grateful […]

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Filed Under: The Writing Life, Writing Craft Tagged With: Catherine Ryan Hyde, Free book, How to Be a Writer in the E-Age, reader pet peeves

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Anne R. AllenAnne R. Allen writes funny mysteries and how-to-books for writers. She also writes poetry and short stories on occasion. She’s a contributor to Writer’s Digest and the Novel and Short Story Writer’s Market.

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